We are so blessed to have a little cottage nestled in what is surely one of the wildest and untamed of places,
Not a day goes by here when I, we, are not bowled over by an immense sense of gratitude for our luck in somehow landing in this part of the world.
As I write this, by the way,
the wind is absolutely howling,
gusts up to 100 km/h,
and there is driving rain. About an hour ago, George and I ran outside because we were both fairly certain that the rain had changed to snow.
Have I mentioned that it is July 24th?
And when I make statements such as ‘we are so blessed to have the opportunity to get to know this part of the world’,
I add a caveat.
I don’t actually believe that this place is entirely knowable.
Our wonderful friend Lyndon was visiting us this last weekend and him and I found ourselves having the conversation that we have had before,
whereby we sit and sing the praises of these glorious surroundings.
I reminded him of the time when he likened Waterton to a portal.
There is, after all, such mystery to this place. One might think, if one was the kind of person to think on these sorts of things,
that if there existed a veil between worlds, Waterton would be the seat of that transitional dimension,
There is a feeling though that we are only allowed to touch the surface of understanding it,
yet, at the same time, the answers to life’s biggest questions might just almost be within grasp here.
It is, after all, a land of dramatic extremes and contrasts.
Today’s pounding wind and rain may very well give way tomorrow to the ideal and calm heat of a perfect summer’s day,
and a lake of glass.
The stretching golden flatness of the prairies suddenly falls into the great depths of Waterton lake and rises up the steep Rocky Mountains.
This town is small, and the number of visitors cannot even begin to compare to the tourists that flood into the villages of other North American national parks, as we are out-of-the-way,
hidden in an unused corner.
And the wildlife here abounds in a way that continues to astound,
even those who have known this place for a lifetime are in careful awe of the raw power and beauty of the magnificent animals that inhabit these forests,
grizzlies, cougars, black bears, wolves,
foxes, lynx, wolverines.
The winters here are long and difficult, and I am not at all convinced that I could stand the loneliness and isolation, never mind the brutal weather, of a sustained stay through that season.
Yet, when Spring finally comes, the wildflowers that suddenly abound are unparalleled in abundance and variety to most places in the world.
It is rare for me to write such homages to landscapes and geography,
but this piece so wanted to be written.
She is my refuge, my inspiration and my creative cozy den, my safe source of comfort,
the place where our family gathers,
she is at once adventure and calm,
and in the midst of a busy life,
a continued and certain source of spirit, peace, renewal.
A Boy’s Reconciliation
As will happen, George and his friend had a falling-out this week.
It was a passionate and volatile argument that occurred at the end of a two-day playdate.
The boys both, it turned out, wanted fiercely and desperately, to be the banker in their game of monopoly.
So much so,
that the game dramatically dissolved into harsh words from both sides, tears, a throwing down of the money and an abrupt parting of ways.
Though my first inclination is to always mend and encourage reconciliation,
I knew they were tired and needed time apart.
So we all rested, read, watched a movie, slept.
The next morning, there was a soft tap on our screen door.
George ran to open it,
the two boys stood and looked at each other for a moment and so I asked them what needed to happen next.
They both quickly said, ‘I’m sorry’, bumped tummies (their version of a hug)
and then ran to the living room to continue their game, this time sharing the role of banker.
I texted an update to my dear friend, the mom of George’s friend, in awe of the absolute simplicity of it all.
No drawn out conversation, resentments, or rehashments~
done with, tummies bumped,
and upward and onward with new play.
For years and years and years,
I have been obsessed with the gorgeousness of mandalas,
and the creative, therapeutic, and meditative potential of exploring these circular patterns.
Finally giving myself permission to delve into the things that make my heart sing, I have begun working with them in true but playful seriousness.
More on this topic to come, but for now,
here are the beginnings of possibilities…. 🙂
8 thoughts on “On Waterton, a boys’ reconciliation, and mandalalalas”
I am going to say this because Karen, you so reminded me of a thought I always used to have when I drove to Waterton and after we got past Cardston, we know we were very close. The road wound through the land rising up, the mountains getting bigger, seemingly huge, the closer we got. And then, there it was; the two mountains that cradle the valley and the Prince of Wales Hotel, high up on the rocky knoll, standing guard over what must surely be a magical lake …. and I thought …… I am entering into a magical fantasy world that is Waterton. And, all was good with the world and I was happy.
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That is absolutely beautiful, what a perfect description. It is a magical fantasy world! Thank you so much for sharing this, my dear uncle whom I love. Waterton misses you!
I sooo love the idea of a place as a portal. Very children’s fantasy literature in the most delightful way. And yes, I love the simplicity of boys and relationships. We women could learn a few things there. Just let it be:).
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Thank you once again for your wonderful and encouraging comments! I love that you love the portal image. :)!
Lovely as always, Karen. I share your sentiments about Waterton – a wildly beautiful, peaceful and soul-restoring place. I always feel that my heart just sighs as we drive into the park. Happily, we’ve been here all week too, feeling a similar awe and gratitude. Maiya and I walked the lake shore yesterday in those driving winds you described, laughing gleefully, holding hands as we tried to tether each other to the ground, getting drenched in a downpour and leaning with a grimacing joy into every glorious moment of it.
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Thank you, Kathy, for your beautiful words. I feel my heart sigh, too, when we drive into the park. What a perfect way to put it! And what a treat to see you and your girls walk by us tonight and chat for a minute! One day we must share a cup of tea or a glass of wine here and bask in our gratitude for this place. xo